Some thoughts on this...
1. It's difficult to say goodbye to one cat, and immediately get another (or two). The bengals are not your departed cat, nor can they replace him. So you have to 'let go" and embrace who your bengals are. Also, from the sound of it, one of your bengals does have an inclination to trust and be affectionate right from the start. Why do you suppose he is now afraid?
2. If you decided that you wanted to bond with a child, how would you go about it? You'd probably observe and talk to the child, figure out what type of things he or she liked to do, and engage them on that level. Correct? Same with bengals. Bengals like to run, jump, pounce, stalk, wrestle etc., and bengals kittens like all those things, only more so. Engage them in those activities as much as you can, and then when they see you as a playmate in addition to a providers, you'll have a much stronger bond.
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