Sc0tt,
For what it's worth, I don't think Elaine was putting things in a worst context. I think she was just pointing out what she felt was important and overlooked (eg looks vs. sbt looks). I think you took it negatively, which isn't unreasonable. But I don't think she deserved to be called a bitter woman for it.
The posts she's made, while very impersonal and not sugar-coated, I don't think have been anything other than a reasonable and strong opinion (admittedly one that I share, in part, so maybe I'm just biased?). Perhaps if you look at it that way, and just take the words at face value only, it might help you feel less attacked? I really get the feeling she's just trying to provide information (which you've asked for), and not trying to beat you up.
And I'll just butt out now with that :)
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