I am sorry, people, normally the way you critic other should be "if you close one door, you need to open another". It is not quite kind just to say "You are wrong", there is no benefit for anybody in this. It is much nicer to help to find ways out.
If somebody falls in a deep hole you don't just stay on the edge and don't just say to whoever fell there that it was all his fault and s/he should have been more attentive and should have behaved differently. You normally help people to get out.
Somebody mentioned here that this type of posts will be good for other users who look for information. No, it will not. People will be afraid to ask questions because they will think that the same will happen to them: rather than they receive an advice they are just blamed. And who will suffer? Cats!
If you really feel pain for animals, educate people, help them with an advice. Don't punish them.
If you don't care about cats, then maybe it is just necessary to declare this: we don't care about the final result we are just looking for whose fault this is.
I am a new Bengal owner and I would appreciate other people experience. But this is not experience, this is almost bulling!
Everybody makes mistakes, sometimes people just need help to get though them.
_________________ Proud servant of Ramses and Djoser
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