Congratulations on the upcoming arrival. Your kitty needs to be separated and away from everything and have its own space for at least the first couple of weeks. This is called a "safe room." Know that when a new kitty arrives, there are new smells, new people, other animals, huge spaces, and this can be overwhelming for the new kitty. You seem to have a busy household, so noise could be an issue as well.This also allows a quarantine type of period in case there are any health issues with the kitty or your other cat.
The safe room should have the litter box, toys, bed. It's not that you have lock the kitty away. Visit with the kitty, hold the kitty, play with the kitty, but keep it separate from the other animals. You can "scent" swap -- taking towels, blankets or other things that belong to the other animals and put them in the room so your new arrival gets used to the scent -- same with the kitty's stuff. Make sure your dog and other cat get a whiff of that.
Naturally, the first introduction would be with someone holding the kitten and allow the other animals to come up and sniff. Don't just set the kitten on the floor and see what happens. Once everyone is aware of everyone else, feed the kitten in the same general area and at the same time as the other pets. You would also bring out toys and play with both cats at the same time (one person entertaining each cat with toys).
Since you have kids, they can help with this in distracting the cats with toys. You may find your kitten gets along better with your dog. Always make sure you supervise when the kitten is around the other animals until you're confident they are getting along,
I know you want to integrate your family ASAP, but I would not start off with putting the kitten into the crate. Your kitten may not realize she is safe from the noses of a prying dog and cat. Use a separate room (bathroom will do). In fact, if you do the introduction right, you won't need a crate.
You seem to have the proper accessories, except you didn't mention a cat tree. Bengals love to climb so you're going to have to have something with height -- shelves on the wall, stacked cubes, or your bengal will be jumping on every piece of furniture you have. An outdoor enclosure is perfect to keep your kitties safe. It will take time for your little girl to learn to use the cat wheel. I love watching videos of kittens trying to work it -- they just don't have the weight to make the wheel rotate.
Bengals are highly active, very vocal, crave attention, are very loving, want to be with their humans (or they can bond better with other pets in the house). She will not be like your Bella at all. My best advice is to read up on all you can regarding the bengal breed. Lots of helpful information on this forum. Most of all, be patient, do the introduction slowly -- don't rush it. You will then have a happy, integrated family.
Let us know how she's doing when you get her home, post pictures .. we'd love to see her. And, good luck!
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