Thanks for all of your comments, it's rather nice to hear that you don't think i'm just being ridiculously picky!!
I have to say that to me, while obviously the beauty of bengals is one of the things that drew me in (plus a slight obsession with leopard print if i'm honest), the most important thing for me is that the little furball that i choose will turn into a lifelong companion. So at the end of the day, no matter how cute and perfectly rosetted a kitten might be in a photo, it doesn't tell me the personality of the kitten and whether we will be a match! Also the deposit before a litter is even born just doesn't feel right to me...
as paiviaso said what if i have already paid and then there aren't enough kittens in this litter for all the people there and then i meet the perfect kitten at another breeders...just feels a little risky for me since it clearly states everywhere that any deposits (even for the waiting list) are non refundable!
I have recently received an email from my top breeder of the moment (this seems to keep changing :S) who, without me even particularly asking, gave me lots of information about HCM, how it only guaranteees health on the day so they regularly screen, esp when they are planning new matings and also test for PK Def / FIV/FELV etc which filled me with confidence
She did mention that she doesn't allow viewings until the kittens are 9 weeks old and have had their first round of injections, i think to protect the kittens really but i thought this was a little later than usual isn't it?
It's not something that would put me off at all as you are probably just more likely to see their personailities a little more at that point but i always like to hear everyone's opinions on here! She did also mention i should be aware that the kittens may generally be a bit nervous with strangers upon the first meeting so they may not necessarily "bond" in the way i would like as they tend to be a lot more confident with the people they know.
While this makes complete sense to me, i do remember reading on here that if kittens are properly socialised at the breeders, there should be no reason for them to be nervous at all....so again, your thoughts would be much appreciated!! I do think perhaps in this case though, she meant more that the kitten just might not be quite as confident with me as they would be around just people he/she has met before...
Sorry for ANOTHER essay!!!