I'm late coming into this thread but I just wanted to say that I'm so glad everything worked out for you.
My breeder asked me questions in a casual conversation and invited me to come see not just the kitten I was interested in but she took me on a tour of her entire home. She showed me where she kept all of her cats and kittens. The males had large cages that had small doors that led to outdoor enclosed pens. The rest of the cats had the run of the house except queens and kittens had their own rooms. Anywho, I fell in love with my kitten and I was encouraged to visit him so I did on a weekly basis from the time he was about 3 weeks old. My 2 daughters and I played with him and his littermates for hours. They were all very sociable from the start. We would sit on the floor and they would crawl all over us. I don't understand a kitten not being sociable at 9 weeks!
We brought him home at 11 weeks, which is the norm in the US. We took him back to the breeder when he was due for his second set of shots and she took care of it for us.
He has been well and happy since.