Your cat could not be sleeping on the bed because the weather is warmer, this is typical and they turn cuddly again in winter.
Your neighborhood doesn't sound very cat safe, seems likely a new cat will meet the same fate. If you wen't with another bengal, that would be an expensive loss. They are also targets of theft.
Keep in mind she may have liked that tabby but may dislike the next cat and resort to using your furniture as a toilet again. Cats pick and choose friends.
Not sure what issue you had with a harness but I use them on all my Bengals without issue, some take longer to get used to it than others.
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