Hi Sherry
Thank you for welcoming me to the forum, I have been a member since 2007 when we got our very first Bengal cat so I did used to post quite a lot back then and then I drifted away lol
Anyway thank you so much for taking the time to post a reply to me and what you have said makes a lot of sense and I kinda presumed I would have to do things slowly, knowing how cats are so territorial and more so Bengal cats.
It's me that wants a boy bengal as I've only had girl cats, my first bengal was a girl who sadly died 4 years ago, so when we decided to get another cat we thought it best to stick to a girl, so we did.
I guess whats prompted me wanting another bengal is that my friend got a male kitten earlier this year and he's growing in to a gorgeous boy and his temperament is so different from the females, he's also very loving which I didn't think the males were.
I am in a bit of a turmoil wanting to fulfill my desires but also not wanting to upset my beautiful girl who has been with us for 4 years now and I'd hate to stress her out as she is a nervy cat, even with us sometimes and runs from strangers who come to our house.
Having said that she was a retired queen so she did live with other cats in the house for 2 years and she did get along with them but that was a long time ago now.
Anyway I will take on board your comments should I decide
Thanks again